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“Sort of”
“Sort of” using a behavioral method to help your children learn good habits is a lot like “sort of” being on a diet. And it works about as well. See the website page related to the age of your child … Continue reading
The Yellow Lego Story
Saturday morning Paul was building a Lego tower with his son Will. Paul loves being a dad and treasures these playtimes with Will. Will was delighted to be building a tall blue tower with his dad. Will had created quite … Continue reading
The Parent/Childcare Provider Relationship
I dedicate this article to Joan and Roxanne who took care of my daughter and Mrs. B. who took care of my son. An excellent childcare provider is a treasure: valuable and hard to find. We entrust our children to … Continue reading
“Sort of…”
“Sort of” using a behavioral change plan to help your child develop good habits is “sort of” like being on a diet. And it works about as well. Once you commit to helping your child learn a good habit you … Continue reading
As you choose a school or college:
Many parents are applying to schools for their children, or helping their young people apply to schools and colleges. I have been told that the following advice has been useful. Be realistic; if a school or college does not select … Continue reading
Homework for Parents
I have a few suggestions for parents whose children are assigned homework. First, DON’T DO THE HOMEWORK FOR THEM! It is so tempting to try to help your child by relieving his stress or pressure. Unfortunately, this is parenting for … Continue reading
Children and Sports Participation
Many parents believe that team sports are necessary for their children. Sports are valuable for physical health and coordination. Research does not support the idea that team sports are inherently better than individual sports for children. Many children thrive by … Continue reading
Helping Your Child Develop Positive Habits
Children learn habits more quickly if they do their tasks in the same order all the time. For example, in the morning: toileting, washing hands and face, putting on clothes, eating breakfast, brushing teeth, in that order but television, toys … Continue reading
Anticipate, to prevent problem behaviors
When a child misbehaves most parents reprimand the child. Hopefully parents also explain to their child what behavior is expected. But what happens if, after several incidents, reprimands and explanations, your child is still misbehaving in the same way? I … Continue reading
Melody M. Lowman, M.A. 